A More Sober View of Priesthood

by: Deacon Douglas McManaman

I was driving home from visiting one of my brothers in a town north of Toronto and noticed an article by Janet Smith about the nephew (Kevin Wells) of the priest who, when I was 17 years old and hitchhiking with my 5-String banjo to Nashville, TN, gave me a lift from Columbus, Ohio and took me to Erlanger, Kentucky (Monsignor Tom Wells). I asked my wife to read it to me in the car while I was driving.

I found that I did not agree with either of them in what they were writing (re: priests who belong to the SSPX). But a memory returned to me while the article was being read to me, a memory that contains what I believe is an important point about the priesthood that I think is more relevant today than years earlier. I remember complaining to Father Wells about the priests in Canada, that they are not like him and how ridiculous it was that for me to return to the Church, I had to be placed on a highway outside of Columbus, Ohio to encounter a priest who was driving from Washington DC on his way to Kentucky, because between Toronto and Nashville, there just weren’t any around to do the job that Father Wells was able to do. That was the general idea of what I was saying to him, if I remember correctly. In any case, what I do clearly remember is that he disagreed with me. And he was adamant. He said to me: “That was a graced moment”. He kept objecting and insisting that the two or three hour period in the car on the way to Kentucky was a graced moment.

Yes, I thought, it was indeed a graced moment, but I didn’t quite understand how that was inconsistent with the point I was making. It took some years for me to get the point–probably because I was blinded by “hero worship”, which in Jungian terms is the projection of the Hero archetype from my own unconscious mind to an individual person, in this case, Kevin’s uncle, Monsignor Tom Wells. He knew something about himself that I did not. What was that? Well, in my eyes Father Wells was larger than life, as all heroes are, but he knew better. He knew that he was not larger than life, and that what resulted from that car ride was the result of divine grace (a graced moment), not Father Wells. In other words, grace was present in me in such a way that I was disposed to see and understand things that were happening on a different level–Father Wells may not have even been aware that anything was happening on another level–in fact, given his delight at the marvels of divine providence months later, it is probably the case that he wasn’t. He was just driving the car, answering my questions to the best of his ability, most importantly relating to me at an eye to eye level (no condescension, pretension, nor airs), being the generous and joyful guy that he was. Had it not been a graced moment, had I not been disposed a certain way by that grace while Father Wells remained the same joyful and generous priest that he was, then life would have gone on and I would not have returned to the Church but would probably be playing in some Bluegrass band somewhere in the U.S. Father Wells had no power to change me, and he knew it. He knew it because he said that he in fact was not responsible for my return to the Church. Grace was. God can use anyone. As Jesus said: “I tell you that out of these stones God can raise up children for Abraham” (Mt 3, 9). He chose to use Father Wells as an instrument, but God could have used anybody. The instrument certainly has some importance–you can’t pick up a watermelon with a plastic fork–, but without the disposition brought about by divine grace–which depends entirely on the will of God at the moment according to the plan of providence–, that journey to Nashville would have been no different than any other journey.

And this is the problem I had with the title of Kevin’s book that I reviewed years ago: The Priests We Need to Save the Church. I was uncomfortable with the title, but decided not to give it too much thought at the time nor mention it to him. But the Church does not need saving. The Church is Holy and Immaculate, because She has been saved by Christ, and there are no priests who are going to save anyone, much less the Church. Any ordained priest who thinks he is going to save anyone is suffering from a bad case of grandiosity. This is why I no longer have the patience to read certain conservative Catholic journals–because most if not all of their writers seem to believe that they are vessels of truth that the world and the Church desperately need. In short, they are delusional. They are no more vessels of truth than your typical columnist from the National Catholic Reporter–and there are some very good writers there.

In the past, shortly after my return to the Church in 1979, there were days when leaving the church after mass I said to myself: “What a pathetic homily!”, when not even 10 seconds later I see a man going up to the pastor to say: “That was a great homily, Father. It touched me deeply”. Many times I thought a particular pastor was a dud, only to learn later how many other people in the parish thought otherwise and how much he did for them. Recently I was out with someone who has quite a harrowing life story, a tremendous near death experience, and in his mind the parish he belongs to is feeding him like there’s no tomorrow and he does not want to move. I didn’t dare tell him what I know about the parish and the pastor. Obviously, the Lord is doing something for these people, despite their pastor and his refusal to take advantage of all the gifted people ready to serve. He’s a stifler, but as Father Wells would say, “God is in control”, and He knows what He’s doing in allowing this, that, and the other thing. But his pastor is certainly not responsible for the good that seems to be happening outside of my purview, any more than a wrench is responsible for my new car’s smooth and reliable performance.

I move some people with my homilies and leave others unmoved, and my priest friends will move others and leave many unsatisfied. We are not all alike, not all at the same place, and certainly not all “spiritually starved”. No parish needs me, and Father Wells would certainly agree that no parish needed him. They need Christ, and I’m not Christ, and neither is he. I’m a very limited human being with a very limited grasp on things, and some people may benefit from my particular way of doing things, but not everyone. And I am certainly not going to be responsible for the salvation of anyone’s soul. God alone will be. In fact, my efforts at saving anyone may very well do more harm than good if those efforts are accompanied by inordinate zeal. And looking back at my life, I do often shake my head at myself, but God must know that at every stage of my life, I’m profoundly limited and continually make mistakes. Why? Because He knows everything. More than that, He is all powerful, so He can and will accomplish all that He wants. So why would I worry? And why are any of us worrying? Why do so many of us behave like a bunch of frantic neurotics with a seriously flawed Manichean worldview that to us appears as orthodoxy? How many times did Jesus say: “Don’t worry”? Did he not say “Take heart, I have overcome the world” (Jn 16, 33)? Young priests fresh out of the seminary have not been chosen to save the Church. After 40 or more years in the priesthood, if they’ve learned anything at all, they are going to look back and say to themselves: “I knew nothing. I was not the slightest bit superior to anyone, and looking back I have to thank so many people for putting up with my obnoxious delusions rooted in the inexperience that is part and parcel of youth. The problem is I can’t, because most of them are dead and buried”.

 

Go forth, the Mass is ended!

Deacon Douglas McManaman

I received a text about the closing remarks of an Archbishop of a major U.S. city. A number of people were rather upset that the Archbishop would point to the altar and say to the congregation: “The consecration is not the most important part of the Mass, but rather the “sending forth”. I was asked to comment.

My first reaction was that this is a strange thing to be upset about; after all, the word ‘Mass’ is from the Latin missa, which means “dismissal” or, as the bishop indicated, “sending forth” (from the Latin verb mittere: to send, to discharge, to release). My friend took issue with my reply and began to argue: “Why not just do social work? Forget the Church and the “silly Eucharist”, he said. “It’s not that important anyways, at least not as much as sending forth”.

But the Archbishop did not say that the consecration is not important. Moreover, the movement outwards can hardly be classified as “social work”. Archbishop Romero, for example, was hardly a social worker; neither could Mother Teresa be classified as such, nor Mother Cabrini, Don Bosco or St. Vincent de Paul, etc. It seems to me, however, that there is a tendency among some clergy and laity to reduce Catholicism to the sanctuary. And this seems to be a perennial problem. In the early 20th century, English poet and chaplain of the British Army during WW1 G. Studdert Kennedy wrote:

The cry that is often raised, that we are going to secularize religion and take the clergy away from their purely “spiritual work”, is the cry of the man who dare not face the Cross. He wants to keep his Christ forever standing amid the lilies of the altar, with the sweet incense of worship rising around him, a weekly refuge from the distraught and vulgar world. He wants to lock Christ up in the Tabernacle, to keep Him in the silence of the secret place, where men must go down on their knees before they touch Him. But Christ wants to come out into the market-place, and down to the streets; He wants to eat and drink with prostitutes, to be mocked and spit upon by soldiers. He wants to call the dishonest trader from his office desk; to stand at his lathe beside the workman; and to bend with the mother over the washtub in the city of mean streets. He wants to go out into the world, that beauty and goodness and truth – beautiful things, good people, and true thought – may grow up around Him wherever He goes. You cannot keep Christ in your churches; He will break them into pieces if you try. He will make for the streets in spite of you, and go on with His own work; defying dead authorities, breaking down tyrannies, destroying shams, declaring open war against a Godless world. And wherever He goes the true Church will go with Him – the Church of those who are forgiven because they are bearing the sins of the world, and have learned how to forgive.

For me, that says it all and says it best. The Archbishop is simply emphasizing the fact that the Mass is ordered outwards, towards the world. The bread and wine that we offer becomes Christ in order that we become Christ, so that when we are sent out, we may bring Christ into the world, and that sending forth includes the priest who says Mass. In other words, it is not a matter of “you go forth” while “I stay here” among the lilies and the incense–although some very conservative clergy argue that “going forth” is for the laity only, while the priest remains inside. Things haven’t changed all that much since the 1920s. Whoever becomes Christ after consuming him will be moved to go out into the market-place, not to shop for dainty pastries and other fine delicacies, but to “eat and drink with prostitutes”, to mix it up with those whom Christ redeemed. Not everyone is so moved: “I don’t want to smell like sheep” protested one priest to a fellow Deacon, upset that Pope Francis would ever suggest such a thing.

The Mass is a beginning, not an ending; it is a means, and a means is subordinated to the end, which in this case is the “Christification” of the world, or rather the universe as a whole. The consecration is the beginning of that Christification of ordinary matter. The Mass is a movement, and the most important part of a movement is the final cause. This has to be emphasized for those who would like everything to revolve around the sanctuary, as though what takes place there is the sole purpose of the Christian life. 


 

Charisms, the Laos, and Listening 

Deacon Douglas McManaman 

“I thank you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and the intelligent and have revealed them to infants.”

This is such an important line of Scripture, for what it reveals is that the prophecy in the Book of Joel has come to fulfillment: 

And it shall come to pass afterward, that I will pour out my Spirit on all flesh; your sons and your daughters shall prophesy, your old men shall dream dreams, and your young men shall see visions. Even upon your male and female servants, in those days, I will pour out my spirit (Jl 3, 1-2).

In other words, the separation between the religious and educated elite on the one hand and the common people without that formal training in the Torah on the other will be obliterated. And it has been, with the coming of Christ. God reveals himself to “minors” (Gk: nepiois). In other words, the humble and unpretentious—but he hides himself from the learned and the sophisticated. And of course this theme is repeated throughout the New Testament: Jesus has table fellowship with hated tax collectors, sinners, and other outcasts, etc. The term “sinners” generally refers to those who do not observe the Torah, and the reason is they don’t know the Torah, for they cannot study the Torah because of the demands of their daily labor. And yet they recognized Christ, while the religious elite, the highly educated Pharisees and Scribes, did not have the eyes to recognize him. Paul continues this theme in his letter to the Corinthians: 

Brothers and sisters, think of what you were when you were called. Not many of you were wise by human standards; not many were influential; not many were of noble birth. But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. God chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things—and the things that are not—to nullify the things that are, so that no one may boast before him. (1 Co 1, 27-28)

How does this work? There are seven personal gifts of the Holy Spirit and a larger number of charisms. The charisms are given for the building up of the body of Christ while the personal gifts are for one’s own personal holiness: wisdom, knowledge, understanding, piety, counsel, fortitude, and the fear of the Lord. But each of us has also received at baptism either one or more charisms that have been given in view of our specific vocation. A charism is a specific way the Holy Spirit manifests himself through you, for the sake of others, and you may not even know when or whether that is actually happening. St. Paul provides a non-exhaustive list of a number of charisms: the gift of healing, the gift of miracles, the gift of prophecy, words of knowledge, etc.,. (1 Co 12, 27-31; Rom 12, 1ff). But Paul also includes some less spectacular charisms, such as the charism of teaching and administration (1Co 12, 28). I try to get this across to my students who are studying to be teachers: “You have a charism”, I tell them, “but like any gift, you have to unwrap and open it”. A charism is not the same as a highly charged personality (charisma)–students often confuse the two. As an example of a teaching charism, consider a former colleague of mine who was technologically challenged, computer illiterate, could barely formulate an email when I first met him and used an overhead projector till the end of his career. Nevertheless, he was the most influential teacher that I knew in my 32 ½ years of teaching. The students were drawn to him, they listened to him, even the most rebellious. He loved his students, prayed for them every morning, loved his subject matter and continued to study it, and he was a joyful teacher. He was an enigma to many in the education system, because he never adopted the latest trends in education, yet the line up of parents eager to meet and thank him on parent/teacher interview night was always the longest. 

I have worked with many gifted administrators over the years, and one in particular had a tremendous charism of administrative leadership. She had great faith and a deep prayer life, and she had kavod, a Hebrew word that is typically translated as glory but really means weight–not literally as in poundage, but a kind of authority, a gravitas. Students respected her, and they knew she loved them, even when she was disciplining them.  

But every baptized person has specific charisms that have to be gradually opened. I’m always impressed with our parishioners at our parish bible study; although they’ve never formally studied theology, the ones in my small group exhibit insight and wisdom that is often remarkable. I know truck drivers and laborers who have no post secondary degrees, but who say the wisest things, revealing again deep insight into the things of God. Where do they get such wisdom and insight? The Holy Spirit comes to their aid. And what is particularly interesting is that they don’t realize that what they say is often deeply insightful–they always second guess themselves. But there’s the humility, and God reveals himself to the humble, to mere children who don’t have any pretensions to great knowledge. 

Because of that very wide outpouring of the Holy Spirit, there are very specific charisms tailored to the vocation that God calls you to, and so they won’t appear in the letters of Paul. Whether you are a police officer, a school janitor, or an accountant, you are given the charism by which the Holy Spirit will manifest himself through you in a way that builds up the body of Christ. And so, there is a big difference between a nurse who has a nursing charism and one who does not. Those with a charism exude a supernatural compassion, intelligence, meticulousness, and a sense that they genuinely care about their patients, making them feel as if they matter. There’s a significant difference between a court judge with a judicial charism and one without. They will exude a degree of practical wisdom, intuition, and integrity, as did someone like St. Thomas More–everyone knew that More was different from the rest. If you are a gifted entrepreneur, God wants to elevate that gift so that you will become one who creatively moves this world forward, without perpetuating the oppression of the weak, but reversing that trend. 

With a charism tailored to your natural talents, you will acquire the wisdom to see the world from a very specific angle, and so you will come to understand the faith from that angle, and the result is that you will have insights that I will lack, because I lack that experience and that specific angle. That is why both Francis and Leo place great emphasis on synodality, that is, listening to the faithful, having synods that include women, lay people, non-clerics, in which bishops are given very specific instructions not to interrupt, but to listen attentively. To do so is to listen to the Church.[1] In her brilliant work on the power of listening, Nancy Kline writes: “Beneath the fear of being punished for thinking for themselves, most people have ideas that matter, ideas that would make a difference if they could be developed fully. People, regardless of their position or status, can think of things that move discussions to whole new levels of sparkle and resolution. Individuals you would never suspect of being interesting have absorbing stories to tell and disturbing insights that would humble even the most long-winded of us right out of our self-importance and rush. If the conditions are right, the huge intelligence of the human being surfaces. Ideas seem to come from nowhere and sometimes stun us.”[2]

One of the interesting things about Vatican II is that the first draft of the Preparatory document for Lumen gentium (entitled Schema de Ecclesia) was overwhelmingly rejected by the Council Fathers and sent back to be re-written. It was rejected for its clericalism and a top down hierarchical view of the Church. In other words, it presented the Church as primarily a juridical bureaucracy and treated lay Catholics merely as passive subjects. If we look at the final document of Lumen gentium, however, we notice the emphasis on the Church as the People of God, the laos (Gk: the common people), which appears before the treatment of that part of the Church that is the hierarchy (Ch. 3). That was a monumental shift in emphasis at the time. The Church is not primarily the society of the ordained; rather, it is a charismatic body, as Cardinal Suenens pointed out. He writes: 

…the Holy Spirit is not given to pastors only but to each and every Christian. …In baptism, the sacrament of faith, all Christians receive the Holy Spirit. All Christians, “living stones”, as they are called, are to be built into a “spiritual dwelling”. Therefore the whole Church is essentially a truly “pneumatic” or spiritual reality, built on the foundation not only of the Apostles, but–as Ephesians 2, 20 says –also of prophets. In the Church of the New Testament God “gave some to be apostles, some prophets, some pastors and teachers” (Eph 4, 11; see 3, 5).

The Holy Spirit shows himself in the Church in the great number and richness of his spiritual gifts, gifts which Scripture calls pneumatika or charisms. Certainly in the time of St. Paul even very extraordinary and marvelous charisms such as “ecstatic utterance” or charisms of healings were shown forth in the Church. But we should not think that the charisms of the Spirit consist exclusively or even principally in these phenomena which are more extraordinary and marvelous. St. Paul speaks, for example, of the charism of wise speech and knowledge, of the charism of faith, or the charism of teaching (Rom 12, 7; 1 Cor 12, 28ff, 14, 26), of comforting speech, and administration, of the charism of distinguishing true spirits from false, of the charism of helping others and guiding them and so on. 

Thus to St. Paul the Church of the living Christ does not appear as some kind of administrative organization, but as a living web of gifts, of charisms, or ministries. The Spirit is given to every individual Christian, the Spirit who gives his gifts, his charisms to each and every one “different as they are allotted to us by God’s grace” (Rom 12, 6). … Each and every Christian, whether lettered or unlettered, has his charism in his daily life, but–as St. Paul says – “All of these must aim at one thing; to build up the Church” (1 Cor 14, 26, see 14, 3-5).  … A statement about the Church, then, which would speak only of the Apostles and their successors and fail to speak about prophets and teachers would be defective in a matter of the highest importance.”[3] 

The fundamental problem, I believe, is that many people are afraid of discovering their gifts and charisms. It is easier to engage in hero worship, to project our own inner gold outward onto others. It can be frightening to think that God pays that much attention to me, calls me, and has gifted me for a mission. That this is normal, we need only recall Moses’ initial resistance to God’s call (Cf. Exodus, chapters 3 & 4), or that of Jonah, Jeremiah, or Gideon. They all saw themselves as inadequate, small and weak, unfit for the task, but this is precisely why God chose to use them as his instruments. They didn’t have large egos, which can get in the way and stifle the work of the Holy Spirit. We are afraid that if I give God my finger, he will take my entire hand. And that’s true, God will take the hand and much more besides, but the good that will be accomplished through us will be incalculable and our joy will be complete.

 

Notes


1. Michael Higgins writes: “Francis defined a synodal church in his address on the 50th anniversary of the Synod of Bishops in 2015—quite early in his papacy—as a church “which listens, which realizes that listening ‘is simply more than hearing.’ It is a mutual listening in which everyone has something to learn. The faithful people, the college of bishops, the Bishop of Rome: all listening to each other, and all listening to the Holy Spirit, the ‘Spirit of truth’ (Jn 14:17), in order to know what he ‘says to the Churches’ (Rev2:7)…. In his 2020 encyclical Fratelli tutti he invoked the image of the polyhedron to represent “a society where differences coexist, complementing and reciprocally enriching one another, even amid disagreements and reservations. Each of us can learn something from the others.” The synodal church as a polyhedron is a church more reminiscent of the pre-Constantinian era, a time of institutional humility and simplicity, shorn of the accoutrements of power, disengaged from political ideologies, with no ties to either the
ancien regime or the ascendant orthodoxies of the current era. In fact, Francis welcomed a change of era, a cambio de epoca, as he called it, with all that it portends: its uncertainties, its possibilities, its unpredictable eruptions of the Holy Spirit.” Pontifex Minimus: Pope Francis Institute talk—June 26, 2026 (part 2), https://mailchi.mp/b506f9ca07d2/pontifex-minimus-the-popes-visit-highlights-his-gift-for-meaningful-engagement-12849577?e=dd69433d0a

2. Nancy Kline. Time to Think: Listening to Ignite the Human Mind (pp. 36-37). (Function). Kindle Edition. She also writes: “Attention, the act of listening with palatable respect and fascination, is the key to a Thinking Environment. Listening of this calibre is enzymatic. When you are listening to someone, much of the quality of what you are hearing is your effect on them. Giving good attention to people makes them more intelligent. Poor attention makes them stumble over their words and seem stupid. Your attention, your listening is that important. We think we listen, but we don’t. We finish each other’s sentences, we interrupt each other, we moan together, we fill in the pauses with our own stories, we look at our watches, we sigh, frown, tap our finger, read the newspaper, or walk away. We give advice, give advice, give advice. Even professional listeners listen poorly much of the time. They come in too soon with their own ideas. They equate talking with looking professional. …Listening to each other, if you want to think for yourselves, requires discipline and the most profound attention for each other. Ibid., p. 37-38. 

3. Cardinal Leon Suenens. “The Charismatic Dimension of the Church”. Council Speeches of Vatican II, edited by Hans Kung, Yvest Congar, Daniel O’Hanlon. Paulist Press, New York: 1964, p. 29-32. 

 

A Note on Divine Impassibility

By Deacon Douglas McManaman

If God is pure act of existing (ipsum esse subsistens), as any good Thomist would contend, then it is difficult to understand how God could suffer, not to mention how God can change. Change proceeds from potentiality to actuality, but there is no potentiality in God. From the same angle, it is argued that God cannot suffer, because suffering implies passivity, which is an accidental mode of being and thus implies potentiality.

It seems to me, however, that the problem with this reasoning is just that–it is reasoning pure and simple. What God has chosen to reveal about himself transcends the grasp of reason. We insist that God is the unutterable mystery, the utterly incomprehensible, the ineffable, and the gulf between human reason and the mystery of the incomprehensible God is unbridgeable from our end–only God can bridge that gap, which he does via divine revelation. 

When certain modern theologians and philosophers speak of God as subject to change and evolution, it is very difficult for someone like me to get a handle on what it is they mean and how such a contention can be true, raised as I was on classical metaphysics. However, I think there is a way to come to some appreciation for this particular perspective, and the way to get there is by focusing on the nature of love, and not the philosophy of being. Allow me to explain.

A person who is completely indifferent to the well-being of another human person is not moved by his or her suffering. We may not be completely indifferent to the well-being of another, only relatively so, in which case our sorrow at the news of their demise is relative and proportioned inversely to that indifference: the greater the indifference, the less we are moved by their suffering. Conversely, the more we love somebody, the more we have invested ourselves in them. In doing so, we have made ourselves vulnerable. This is what it means to genuinely love another–it means to love that person as another “self”, so that what happens to that person happens to me, or is felt by me. The more perfect that love, the more perfect will be my identification with them, and so their happiness becomes my happiness, and their unhappiness becomes my own unhappiness. Hence, love is always risky. If I am averse to risk, my love will be very limited. The greater my love, the greater my willingness to throw caution to the wind and risk everything for the beloved. 

When I choose to love another, I choose to make myself not only vulnerable to suffering, but subject to change. I actually introduce new potentialities into my life. In this way, one could say that I render myself more imperfect, in so far as imperfection implies potentiality. For example, in choosing to love another as another self, I am now larger, which means I am no longer just one, but two, and three, and four, and so on, depending on how many I choose to love as another “me”. My happiness is now subject to change. Their increase in well-being and happiness becomes my own, just as any sorrow that comes to them as a result of any harm that befalls them becomes my own sorrow. My life is much less stable as a result, that is, it is more open to fluctuation, instability and change. To the extent that the person I love is left in a state of “not yet”, to that extent I am “not yet”. If the person I choose to love is left permanently deprived, unrealized, or destroyed, then I am permanently unrealized, deprived, and my life is to a certain extent destroyed–just consider the state of a mother whose child has been destroyed. Does she ever recover completely? The only way we can avoid this is to separate ourselves from the one we love so that his or her sorrow is no longer ours. But if I have become them through love, then I have freely made myself subject to the changes that they are bound to undergo. 

Now, from one angle, it is true that I cannot love someone I need. For love to be genuine, I have to love that person for his or her sake, not for my sake, that is, not for the sake of my needs–this is nothing more than self-love. However, to freely choose to love another for his or her own sake, not for my sake, is to freely choose to create the conditions in which I now need that person’s completeness in order to achieve my own. The difference between the former and the latter is that the latter is a gift, while the former is not. 

All this is just the nature of love. In other words, if love is joyful, it is also painful, and the greater the love, the greater the pain in store for me.

Now, the central text for this discussion here is found in 1 John, chapter 4: “Beloved, let us love one another, because love is of God; everyone who loves is begotten by God and knows God. Whoever is without love does not know God, for God is love” (v. 7-8). Reason can establish that whatever exists in God is identical to his act of existing, so indeed, God is love without measure. God is absolute love. But now we are in a quandary; for love without the ability to change, without the will to identify with the beloved, and thus without the ability to suffer, is simply not love. If God loves more than any of us, then God suffers more than any of us, and if love involves a free decision to render oneself vulnerable to change and instability, such that the beloved’s growth in perfection becomes my own growth in perfection, then the God who is Love Itself is a God who, by his own will, is subject to change. In fact, one would have to say that such a God needs us, because genuine love creates the conditions in which the lover needs the beloved’s completeness in order to be complete. The passion and death of Christ is the visible manifestation of the interior suffering of God who is Love, and his need for water–”I thirst” (Jn 19, 28) – is a manifestation of the divine need–for our love and the love of all that was created through him and for him (Col 1, 16). 

It might very well be the case that for centuries some of us have not allowed divine revelation to do what it is meant to do, namely “reveal”; rather, we only permit content filtered through the sieve of unaided reason. But divine revelation reveals something of the darkness that reason encounters when it has been so sifted; for the light of reason is dim compared to the light of divine revelation, which reveals the inner life of the Trinity. God is Love, and so God is a never ending source of surprises. Those who have an aversion to surprises will be drawn to what is controllable, manageable, comprehensible, and stable–an evolving universe, an evolving world, and an evolving Church will only make them anxious. 



 

May God bless you, Deacon

A Thought on Faith and Conceptual Frameworks

Deacon Douglas McManaman


I’ve been visiting a man in hospital who has a serious infection that has deprived him of his ability to walk, and he’s been in a great deal of pain for years. He has assured me a number of times that we are not “on the same page” in terms of our worldview. In other words, this man does not believe in God, in the resurrection of Christ, in eternal life, nor will he permit me to pray any kind of blessing over him. He is a very intelligent man and not in any way irreverent or disrespectful, and I do enjoy sitting down with him and listening to him, especially his ideas on Paracelsus and toxicology. However, on a couple of occasions he has said to me: “May God bless you, Deacon”. He assured me that he does not mean this in the same way I understand those words, for in his mind, there is no God, but he still insists on uttering what seems to me to be a genuine blessing.

Well, the cat is out of the bag, at least in my mind. I certainly would not tell him that, but God is the unutterable mystery—we’ve been saying that for centuries (Pseudo-Dionysius, Aquinas, Maimonides, Eckhart, Pascal, etc.). If we pause and think hard about this, what do we really know about God in the end? We may know something about what God is not (apophatic theology), but do we really think we adequately understand God’s relationship to creation, to my own mind, your mind, to the unconscious mind, to the collective unconscious, and what do we really know about God’s trinitarian nature? What I am really asking is to what degree does my concept of God and all that belongs to it correspond to what he actually is? I could ask a similar  and easier question: “To what degree does my concept of a human being correspond to the complete reality of the human person?” There is no doubt in my mind, after years of reflection upon my experience with human beings and my study of human nature, that my current understanding of “human being” is much richer than what it was decades ago, but there is also no doubt that my understanding is infantile compared to what there is to know about the mystery of the human person. How much more so is this the case when it comes to my concept of God and his relationship to me and everything else? God is infinitely knowable and thus incomprehensible, and so it would seem to follow that my current understanding, which is all wrapped up in a concept or collection of concepts, will forever shrink to a kind of nothingness next to the divine infinitude. In other words, my concept will always be, if not false, at least infinitely inadequate. 

This semi-paralyzed man does not work with the same conceptual equipment that I work with, and yet he is moved to say: “May God bless you, Deacon”. What does that mean? Must he possess the very same concepts that I possess, which refer to the unutterable mystery of God who we believe created all things and sustains all things, who revealed himself in the Person of Christ, etc., in order for him to know and respond to, at some level, something that not even he understands explicitly, namely the proximity of God himself? It would be foolish of me to insist on it, especially when I know that my own current conceptual framework and all its intelligible content is infinitely inadequate. Perhaps this is an instance of grace worming its way into his soul, as St. Edith Stein once wrote about [1]. Does this patient have to explicitly and consciously know that his suffering is a sharing in the suffering of Christ in order for it to be so? Does he have to explicitly and consciously offer his sufferings for the salvation of souls for his sufferings to be so offered and thus made spiritually fruitful? I would say no, not at all. In fact, all that is necessary is that God take the initiative and join a human nature to himself so as to be present to every human person and an implicit desire on this man’s part, rooted in an implicit knowledge of God’s proximity, that the best befall others—and God is certainly the best. It would seem that God has outwitted even the most rebellious, giving them what they ultimately want, which is himself, and on their terms. 

 

[1]. She writes: “All merciful love can descend upon anyone. We believe that it does. And now, should there be souls who exclude themselves from it permanently? In principle, the possibility is not excluded. In fact, it can become infinitely unlikely, precisely through what prevenient Grace is able to accomplish in the soul. This Grace can only knock, and there are souls that open themselves at even this quiet call. Others let it go unheeded. But then this Grace can worm its way into these souls, and more and more expand itself in them. The greater the space that it occupies in such an illegitimate way, the more unlikely it will be that the soul closes itself off. It already sees the world now in the light of Grace…The more ground that Grace wins from that which occupied it before, the more ground it deprives from the free acts directed against it. And, in principle, there are no limits to this displacement. When all the impulses against the spirit of light are displaced from the soul, then a free decision against it [the spirit of light] becomes infinitely unlikely. For this reason, the belief in the boundlessness of God’s love and Grace, as well as the hope for universal salvation, are justified…” Edith Stein, “Freiheit und Gnade” und weitere Beitrage zu Phanomenologie und Ontologie: (1917 bis 1937) (Freiburg: Herder, 2024), 158-159. Quoted in Christoph Wrembek, S. J. Hope for Judas: God’s Boundless Mercy for Us All. N.Y.: New York City Press, pp.148-149.



Thoughts on Scripture and the Complexities of Interpretation

Deacon Douglas McManaman

There is no doubt that Scripture, the word of God, has mixed within it the “word of man”. The latter is very often culturally and historically conditioned, that is, not always right, certainly not absolutely and universally. But in order to come to some understanding of how Scripture can be the word of God without falling into fundamentalism, consider the following. As an analogy, think of a person who is in a state of grace (divine grace is the indwelling of the Trinity). This could be you, or your devout and faithful grandmother, etc. Since grace is a sharing in the divine life, such a person is “divinized” or “deified”–for there is a very real sharing in the life of God, which is supernatural. The person is human, but also more than human insofar as he or she shares in the divine nature. That sharing in the divine life brings about a certain illumination, a light of faith, and the gift of wisdom (which is one of the 7 gifts of the Holy Spirit) has its roots in the theological virtue of charity. So this person does not simply see the world from a merely human point of view, but also from a “divine” point of view, as it were. However, such a person still makes mistakes; he or she can be wrong about a particular matter, i.e., geography, or a scientific matter, or about what constitutes the best parenting strategies, or even about the will of God in this or that situation, etc.,. The overall direction of this person’s life, however, will be right. 

Such a person will grow in his or her understanding of God through a well developed prayer life, and through his or her own life experience, as well as through an increase in the light of faith and the gift of wisdom and understanding, and so what this person might have believed with great conviction earlier on in his or her life may undergo serious modifications later. We see such a development in the history of Israel. Our understanding of Scripture and our ability to distinguish between the word of God and the culturally/historically conditioned word of man develops in time through a kind of dialectic. We reflect upon our experience in the light of scripture (in particular, the life and teachings of Christ), and we reflect upon scripture in light of our own experience, and we reflect upon our life in light of insights gained through prayer and dialogue with others. This leads to growth in understanding, which is a kind of change. 

We certainly see this kind of development in the history of the Church, but we also see such development in Scripture itself as it moves towards the New Testament. For example, Scripture affirms the sacredness of human life (i.e., Thou shalt not kill), and yet we see in 1 Samuel 15 that King Saul was reproached by the prophet Samuel for failing to “put under the ban” (which means utterly wipe out) all the inhabitants of the Amalekite town. Do we really believe that it was God’s will that Israel destroy all the inhabitants of the Amalekite town? Some people believe that, but we certainly do not. The biblical writers were anthropologically limited, as all of us are. The word of God is there, but it must be extracted out, and doing so is not always easy, contrary to what many on the fundamentalist spectrum tend to believe.



Some Thoughts on Personhood, Hell, and the Hope for Universal Salvation

By Deacon D. McManaman

“Moral consciousness began with God’s question: Cain, where is thy brother Abel? It will end with another question on the part of God: Abel, where is thy brother Cain?” 
Nicolas Berdyaev.


Pope John Paul II was fond of repeating that man is the only creature in the physical universe that God the Creator willed into existence for his/her own sake.[1] What this implies is that the human person possesses an intrinsic value, as opposed to a value determined in reference to something extrinsic, such as how well the person is able to serve the ends of the society outside of him. The human person is a relational being; however, his existence is always open to a greater fullness and expansion, which can only occur in community. The human person is created by God for his sake, but at the same time called by God to Himself, because God is Goodness Itself (God is Love), and so God wills that the human person be most fully, to expand, first and foremost for his own sake. It is true that persons exist for the good of others, but the only way to maximally benefit others, to exist most fully in community, is to become as good and complete as possible, because goodness is self-expansive, effusive, and communicable.

The kind of self-expansion specific to the human person exists on the level of the intellect and the will. The human person has the capacity to apprehend intelligibles, that is, to gradually understand the natures of things through the observation of their activities. But intellectual knowledge is a specific kind of self- expansion. Through this kind of knowing, the human person becomes more than what he is without ceasing to be what he is. What this means is that the things a person knows exist in him, that is, in his mind–we say that knowledge is within us. For example, the knowledge of my friend or the maple tree in my front yard is real and in my mind, and so it is true to say that these things exist in me in a certain way, obviously in a way that is different than the way they exist outside of me. The tree outside me exists physically (with size, weight, shape, texture, subject to place, etc.), but within me it exists immaterially (without size, weight, place, etc.). Through knowledge, I become more, that is, I expand; for I am more than what I would be without knowing the thing that I know; for my mind has become that cat, this dog, the sky, etc., immaterially. The concepts of things are “conceived” in me; I become “pregnant” with the world around me. Hence, knowledge is a kind of union and an expansion of self. 

But intellect is not man’s only power. He wills, inclines to, or desires to be most fully. The human person has volition. He not only apprehends intelligible objects (the natures of things, their existence, truth, beauty, real harmonious relationships, justice, etc.), he also wills them. The intelligible objects that draw him are intelligible goods (i.e., life, knowledge, beauty, friendship, integrity, religion, etc.). The will, however, makes possible another kind of self-expansion, namely the self-expansion that occurs through love. Not only do I know the other as a person of the same nature as myself (as another self), I can also will his good for his own sake, not merely for the sake of what he does for me. I can will his good as I will my own, for his sake. In other words, I can love him as another self, another me. In knowledge, he exists in me in a certain way; but through love (an act of the will), I go outside myself and exist as him. Through love, I become two, or three, or four, depending on how extensive that love is.

The larger I become, that is, the more I love in the true sense of self-expansion, the better and more complete I become, and the more complete I become, the happier I am. The more that my love is limited to myself—which means that I love others not for their sake, but primarily for what they do for me—, the more I shrink. I can desperately seek to be filled up with all sorts of experiences, using others for the sake of that end, and at the same time experience a gradual diminishing and accompanying emptiness, much to my chagrin. In this case, I am deceived about my own fulfillment. A self-centered life is joyless, although it may very well be filled with pleasures of all sorts.

What is particularly noteworthy at this point is that as a person shrinks, he becomes increasingly large in his own eyes. Hence, the self-centered live in unreality; they live a deluded existence. There is a sense in which one has rejected one’s status as a creature, created by God out of the effusiveness of divine generosity, but to reject such a status as dependent upon God, measured by the divine law, is to have chosen to be one’s own god, and so all reminders of one’s creaturely status become the object of such a person’s hatred. The life of those on this path is a life of envy; for every reminder of my limits, such as anyone who is smarter or more talented or more skilled than I am, becomes an object of my envy, and envy delights in the misfortunes of others, and wishes that others be deprived of the good that is theirs. What Sergius Bulgakov writes about Satan’s anxiety is entirely applicable here

…this same consciousness [the knowledge of his creaturehood] introduces an unbearable, rending contradiction into the very depths of Satan’s being, instilling in him an unconquerable anxiety and a struggle against his very self; it creates the need for incessantly assuring himself (in spite of self-evident testimony to the contrary) of that in which there is no and cannot be any assurance. The living out of this contradiction constitutes the only and exhaustive content of the life of the prince of this world in his exile from this world.[2]

The human person living within the current of Satan’s rebellion not only lives in unreality, he is, to one degree or another, in a constant battle against the reality of his own creaturehood and all that it implies (his limitations, dependency upon God and others, etc.). He has a deep hatred for that truth, which is really the most fundamental truth about himself.

The human person, created in the image and likeness of God, is a mystery in the true sense of the word: an inexhaustible and infinitely knowable reality, for God is the unutterable mystery–infinitely knowable and incomprehensible. My deepest identity is the moral identity that I determine by the moral choices that I make, but those choices occur within a highly complex network of personal interactions that extend as far back as the womb. I am my relationship to the history of those interactions in my life, from the acts of love shown to me by my mother and father, my siblings, friends and strangers, teachers and administrators, to even acts of indifference towards me, acts of cruelty and hatred, accidents and coincidences, etc. And all these interactions are with persons whose identities in turn have been shaped by their histories–which at best I am familiar with only in tiny slivers and strands–, and so on and so forth. An individual person is a genuine mystery, forever knowable, never completely understood or comprehended. Too much escapes my own notice for me to confidently assert that I completely “know” someone. But I do know at least this: that I am indebted to more people than I am explicitly aware of; for I alone have not “made myself”; I have been made by God and by myriads of other creatures like myself. The way I choose to relate to all of them is the result of my own choice–how free those moral choices of mine or others are, and thus how responsible I am for them, is not possible for me to know with any certainty. But I can relate to that entire historical network with more or less gratitude, which implies a recognition of my creaturely dependency and limitations, or I can remain oblivious to this debt and continue to live without gratitude. In the latter case, I have become my own worst enemy. The hell I have created for myself is characterized by a deep and underlying anxiety, frustration, a constant confrontation with the reality of my own creatureliness and an absurd and insane rejection of it. Such a person is stubborn, arrogant, and in his own mind is always “the smartest person in the room”.

This is not a life of freedom, because it is an entirely unenlightened life. This is a life of the deepest spiritual slavery. In his Second Letter to the Corinthians, Paul writes:

The Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. …And even though our gospel is veiled, it is veiled for those who are perishing, in whose case the god of this age has blinded the minds of the unbelievers, so that they may not see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God (2 Cor 3, 17; 4, 4)

This is a dark and exhausting existence. When its trajectory runs its course, this is what we mean by hell. Nicolas Berdyaev writes:

The distortion of the idea of hell in the human mind has led to its being identified with the fear of God’s judgment and retribution. But hell is not God’s action upon the soul, retributive and punitive as that action may be; it is the absence of any action of God upon the soul, the soul’s incapacity to open itself to God’s influence and its complete severance from God. Hell is nothing other than complete separation from God. The horror of hell is not inspired by the thought that God’s judgment will be stern and implacable. God is love and mercy, and to give one’s fate to Him means to overcome the horror. The horror is to have my fate left in my own hands. It is not what God will do to me that is terrible, but what I will do to myself. What is terrible is the judgment passed by the soul upon itself, upon its own impotence to enter eternal life. Hell really means not that man falls into the hands of God but that he is finally abandoned to his own devices.[3]

Is there a realistic hope for universal salvation?

In the chapter entitled “Does ‘Eternal Life’ Exist?”, in his book Crossing the Threshold of Hope, Pope John Paul II asks the question: “Can God, who has loved man so much, permit the man who rejects Him to be condemned to eternal torment?” Despite what the 5th Ecumenical Council has said with respect to a particular version of apokatastasis (universal restoration),[4] “the problem remains”, he says.[5] And since the problem remains, I would like to provide just a brief introduction to a tradition in the Church with respect to this hope, one that extends as far back as St. Clement of Alexandria.[6] In an interview back in 1993, regarding the new Catholic Catechism of that year, the Ecumenical Patriarch of Constantinople Bartholomew I said: “Why say nothing of the hope and prayer for common salvation, which can be found in Ambrose of Milan, Gregory of Nyssa, Dionysius the Areopagite, Isaac of Nineveh, Juliana of Norwich and so many other great contemporary theologians, such as Hans Urs von Balthasar? These problems are significant for the man of today, tragically oscillating between the fear of void and delusive promises of reincarnation.”[7] In that light, I would like to make sure that something is said here about this hope for common salvation.

I believe the problem we are addressing can be looked upon from two different angles or sides: 1) from the side of man and his freedom, and 2) from the side of God and His grace. First, consider this from the side of man. Berdyaev writes: 

Hell is the state of the soul powerless to come out of itself, absolute self-centeredness, dark and evil isolation, i.e., final inability to love. It means being engulfed in an agonizing moment which opens up on a yawning abyss of infinity, so that the moment becomes endless time. Hell creates and organizes the separation of the soul from God, from God’s world and from other men. In hell the soul is separated from everyone and from everything, completely isolated and at the same time enslaved by everything and everyone.[8]

Such a person has killed the grace of God within, completely severing himself from divine friendship, and so he is incapable, on his own, of opening himself to God’s influence, unable to extricate himself from his own darkness. If we stop at this point, however, and limit ourselves to the consideration of man and his freedom alone, which most Christians do, then all we are left with is never ending despair: “Abandon all hope, ye who enter here”, as inscribed on Hell’s gate in Dante’s Inferno. But why should we stop here? To do so, it seems to me, is theologically unwarranted; it is what Berdyaev refers to as “reckoning without Christ”. And I believe this is what St. Edith Stein meant when she wrote: “It is not enough to consider freedom by itself. One must also examine what Grace can accomplish, and whether there are any absolute limits to it. We have already seen that Grace must come to human beings. At best, human beings can reach the door, but no one can force their entry. Furthermore, Grace can come to them, without their searching, without their willing.”[9]

Christ’s fullness is “grace upon grace” (Jn 1, 16), and he has revealed himself as “savior”, the good shepherd who goes in search of the lost, who came to save what is lost, to raise the dead to life; for the name ‘Jesus’ is the late form of the Hebrew name ‘Joshua’, which means ‘Yahweh is salvation’.

In the prologue of the gospel of John, we read: “In him was life, and the life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it” (Jn 1, 4-5). But what exactly is this “life” that is the “light of men” which darkness has failed to overcome? George MacDonald says it quite beautifully:

The life of Christ is this–negatively, that he does nothing, cares for nothing for his own sake; positively, that he cares with his whole soul for the will, the pleasure of his father. Because his father is his father, therefore he will be his child. The truth in Jesus is his relation to his father; the righteousness of Jesus is his fulfilment of that relation. Meeting this relation, loving his father with his whole being, he is not merely alive as born of God; but, giving himself with perfect will to God, choosing to die to himself and live to God, he therein creates in himself a new and higher life; and, standing upon himself, has gained the power to awake life, the divine shadow of his own, in the hearts of us his brothers and sisters, who have come from the same birth-home as himself, namely, the heart of his God and our God, his father and our father, but who, without our elder brother to do it first, would never have chosen that self-adjuration which is life, never have become alive like him. To will, not from self, but with the Eternal, is to live.[10]

As we approach a person in daylight, our shadow is cast over him, and as God approaches us, we are covered by the divine shadow of His own life, which awakens us to the new life of grace: “The waters are frozen at his touch; he sends forth his word and it melts them: at the breath of his mouth the waters flow” (Ps 147, 18). In joining a human nature, the Son joined himself to every man, as it were.[11] If this is the case, then our humanity has become the Father’s “Other Self”. The result of this is that when the Father looks upon humanity, he sees his Son, His ‘Other Self’, and when He beholds His Son, he beholds our humanity and every individual who participates in that humanity. Now what we know of the Father is this: “…who wills everyone to be saved and to come to knowledge of the truth” (1 Tim 2, 4). We know this because God the Son, who is everything that the Father can say about Himself, has joined humanity to Himself in order to save it. Christ is savior, he has come to search out the lost, to deliver from slavery, to shine light into darkness, to raise the dead to life.

The parables that best illustrate this relation in the action of seeking out the lost are the parables of the divine mercy in the gospel of Luke, which are best considered in relation to one another. In fact, the two of them ought to be read against the backdrop of the parable of the prodigal son. The reason is that in the parable of the prodigal son, the son eventually comes to his senses and makes plans to return to his father. But what is dead cannot “come to its senses”, because to “come to one’s senses” presupposes life, and indeed the father said: “…for this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found” (Lk 15, 24). In this parable, the divine life that went in search of him, found him and raised him from the dead, was hidden, not explicit. However, in the parable of the lost sheep, the active searching on the part of the man who loses one of the ninety-nine is brought out explicitly: “What man of you, having a hundred sheep, if he has lost one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the wilderness, and go after the one which is lost, until he finds it? And when he has found it, he lays it on his shoulders, rejoicing” (Lk 1, 4-5). The emphasis here is not so much on the one who is found as it is upon the one who goes looking—the man has to go searching for the lost sheep because unlike the prodigal son, it does not return on its own. But what the prodigal son and the lost sheep have in common is clear evidence of life; for the prodigal son considers his predicament and makes his way back to the father; the sheep does not return home, but perhaps it cries out so that it can be found. But it is the parable of the lost coin that is rather remarkable against the background of these two parables: “What woman, having ten silver coins, if she loses one coin, does not light a lamp and sweep the house and seek diligently until she finds it?” (Lk 15, 8). A coin cannot return on its own, nor can it cry out in the wilderness; it is nothing more than a piece of inert matter, that is, it is dead. Nonetheless, the woman lights a lamp and sweeps the house and seeks diligently until she finds it. She does not give up, in other words.[12] This is a very important theological datum that must not be overlooked–she lights a lamp and sweeps, looking diligently until what she is looking for, a precious piece of metal that is nevertheless inert and lifeless, is found.

We know that those trapped in the depths of their own hell are in that state as a result of the choices they have made, but that is not the whole story of the good news of the gospel. The good news is that they are the objects of a divine search, a search that does not end until the dead are found: “In this way the love of God was revealed to us: God sent his only Son into the world so that we might have life through him. In this is love: not that we have loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as expiation for our sins” (1 Jn 4, 9-10). That search for us begins here, but the question is: does God ever stop searching? Are there limits to His mercy? Or more to the point, can God’s universal salvific will be ultimately frustrated, that is, defeated?

Every Holy Saturday morning, year after year, those who are required to pray the Liturgy of the Hours read the following From an Ancient Homily on Holy Saturday, in the Office of Readings:

Something strange is happening—there is a great silence on earth today, a great silence and stillness. The whole earth keeps silence because the King is asleep. The earth trembled and is still because God has fallen asleep in the flesh and he has raised up all who have slept ever since the world began. God has died in the flesh and hell trembles with fear.

He has gone to search for our first parent, as for a lost sheep. Greatly desiring to visit those who live in darkness and in the shadow of death, he has gone to free from sorrow the captives Adam and Eve, he who is both God and the son of Eve. The Lord approached them bearing the cross, the weapon that had won him the victory. At the sight of him Adam, the first man he had created, struck his breast in terror and cried out to everyone: “My Lord be with you all.” Christ answered him: “And with your spirit.” He took him by the hand and raised him up, saying: “Awake, O sleeper, and rise from the dead, and Christ will give you light.”

I am your God, who for your sake have become your son. Out of love for you and for your descendants I now by my own authority command all who are held in bondage to come forth, all who are in darkness to be enlightened, all who are sleeping to arise. I order you, O sleeper, to awake. I did not create you to be held a prisoner in hell. Rise from the dead, for I am the life of the dead. Rise up, work of my hands, you who were created in my image. Rise, let us leave this place, for you are in me and I am in you; together we form only one person and we cannot be separated. [13]

Christ came to destroy death, and his victory is precisely in its complete destruction. On Friday of the third week of Easter, the Office of Readings includes the following from St. Ephrem, who writes:

Death could not devour our Lord unless he possessed a body, neither could hell swallow him up unless he bore our flesh; and so he came in search of a chariot in which to ride to the underworld. This chariot was the body which he received from the Virgin; in it he invaded death’s fortress, broke open its strong-room and scattered all its treasure.

At length he came upon Eve, the mother of all the living. She was that vineyard whose enclosure her own hands had enabled death to violate, so that she could taste its fruit; thus the mother of all the living became the source of death for every living creature. But in her stead Mary grew up, a new vine in place of the old. Christ, the new life, dwelt within her. When death, with its customary impudence, came foraging for her mortal fruit, it encountered its own destruction in the hidden life that fruit contained. All unsuspecting, it swallowed him up, and in so doing released life itself and set free a multitude of men.[14]

There cannot be any doubt, “the problem remains”, as Pope John Paul II pointed out. It seems to me that a serious difficulty with the infernalist perspective (I.e., eternal torments in hell for the damned) is that within that frame of mind, such readings from the Divine Office, among others, cause a certain degree of cognitive dissonance. This is especially the case with respect to a number of scriptural texts from St. Paul: “God has imprisoned all in disobedience that he might have mercy on all” (Rom 11, 32); “Because of this, God greatly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bend, of those in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father” (Phil 2, 9-11).[15] The problem, of course, is that the spiritually dead do not bend their knees and confess the Lordship of Jesus to the glory of God, only the living do (Ps 115, 17). Nor is God “all in all” for those who have rejected Him. However, St. Paul writes:

But now Christ has been raised from the dead, the first fruits of those who have fallen asleep. For since death came through a human being, the resurrection of the dead came also through a human being. For just as in Adam all die, so too in Christ shall all be brought to life, but each one in proper order: Christ the first fruits; then, at his coming, those who belong to Christ; then comes the end, when he hands over the kingdom to his God and Father, when he has destroyed every sovereignty and every authority and power. For he must reign until he has put all his enemies under his feet. The last enemy to be destroyed is death, for “he subjected everything under his feet.” But when it says that everything has been subjected, it is clear that it excludes the one who subjected everything to him. When everything is subjected to him, then the Son himself will also be subjected to the one who subjected everything to him, so that God may be all in all. (1 Co 15, 20-28)

But how does this square with human freedom, the freedom to reject God’s advances for all eternity? Love is not love unless it is freely given, and God is Love; so will God allow us to reject Him for all eternity, especially given that love does not compel? A hasty response in the affirmative overlooks too much with respect to the genius of the divine love. As Edith Stein points out: “Human freedom cannot be broken by the divine, nor suppressed, but it can be outwitted, as it were. The descent of Grace into the human soul is a free act of divine love. And there are no limits to its expansion” [emphasis mine].[16]

A mother does not stop searching for her lost son, and it is love that provides the light needed to “outwit” her son’s rebellion (Is 49, 15). As the mother, like the woman in the parable, approaches her lost son, a shadow is cast upon him because she does not walk in darkness–the shadow is, of course, the life of the Son, the life of grace, which can “worm its way in” so to speak. St. Edith Stein continues:

All merciful love can descend upon anyone. We believe that it does. And now, should there be souls who exclude themselves from it permanently? In principle, the possibility is not excluded. In fact, it can become infinitely unlikely, precisely through what prevenient Grace is able to accomplish in the soul. This Grace can only knock, and there are souls that open themselves at even this quiet call. Others let it go unheeded. But then this Grace can worm its way into these souls, and more and more expand itself in them. The greater the space that it occupies in such an illegitimate way, the more unlikely it will be that the soul closes itself off. It already sees the world now in the light of Grace…The more ground that Grace wins from that which occupied it before, the more ground it deprives from the free acts directed against it. And, in principle, there are no limits to this displacement. When all the impulses against the spirit of light are displaced from the soul, then a free decision against it [the spirit of light] becomes infinitely unlikely. For this reason, the belief in the boundlessness of God’s love and Grace, as well as the hope for universal salvation, are justified… [emphasis mine].[17]

This is an interesting and mysterious paradox: that grace slowly and gradually deprives a soul of the ground for the free acts directed against it, and yet such displacement in fact marks an increase in freedom, for “The Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom” (2 Co 3, 17). Those in darkness are slaves to sin, and they really do not understand the full implications of the choices they make. Indeed, Christ himself said: “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do” (Lk 23, 34), and for the most part, we don’t know what we are doing, especially when our choices plunge us more and more deeply into darkness.

The problem many people have with these points, it seems to me, stems from the tendency to regard this issue within an exclusively juridical model. As Berdyaev writes: “The idea of hell must be completely freed from all association with criminal law transferred to the heavenly world. Hell as a subjective realm, as the absorption of the soul in its own darkness, is the immanent result of sinful existence and not a transcendental punishment for sin. Hell is absorption in the immanent and the impossibility of passing to the transcendental. The descent of the Son of God into hell can alone liberate man from it. Hell is the consequence of the natural world being closed to Divine intervention and to the descent of God into it. All Divine action in the world is directed towards freeing man from hell.”[18]

Some Final Thoughts 

If the hope for universal salvation has some theological justification, then universal salvation is a real possibility, which in turn means that it is really possible that hell is not eternal. Of course, some people just will not hear of this, but the few scriptural passages that seem to indicate that hell is eternal might, on closer analysis, suggest otherwise. The two scriptural texts appealed to in defense of hell’s eternity are Matthew 25, 46: “And these will go off to eternal punishment”, and Revelation 20, 10: “There they will be tormented day and night forever and ever”. In both texts, however, the original Greek word here translated–or perhaps mistranslated–as “eternal” is aionion, which is properly translated as “ages of ages” (eons, as well as “other worldly”), and the word for punishment in Mt 25, 46 is kolasin, which is best translated as “chastening”, which is “remedial punishment”, not retribution (timoria).[19] In fact, “chastening”, that is, remedial punishment, is the only kind of punishment that really has any meaning in this context. Eternal (aidios) retribution (timoria), which does not appear in scripture, would be utterly senseless. Consider the word “meaning”. In French, ‘meaning’ is sens, which is also translated as ‘direction’. What moves in a particular direction is meaningful and intelligible by virtue of that direction, for it is movement for the sake of an end–a life that is “going nowhere” is experienced as “meaningless”. Since final cause (end) coincides with formal cause (that for the sake of which there is coming to be), a movement without an end is unintelligible and meaningless. Torment (punishment) that is eternal and without a purpose (such as remediation or the good of the punished) is utterly without point, that is, without meaning.[20] Moreover, it is inconsistent with love, since love is intrinsically meaningful, for it “wills the good”. But kolasis that lasts “ages of ages” (eons) is consistent with the divine love, for it is punishment or chastening with a point—namely, eventual salvation. Moreover, according to St. Isaac of Nineveh, it is precisely the fire of the divine love that torments the damned:

…I say that even those who are scourged in Hell are tormented with the scourgings of love. Scourgings for love’s sake, namely of those who perceive that they have sinned against love, are more hard and bitter than tortures through fear. The suffering which takes hold of the heart through the sinning against love is more acute than any other torture. It is evil for a man to think that the sinners in Hell are destitute of love for the Creator. For love is a child of true knowledge such as is professed to be given to all people. Love works with its force in a double way. It tortures those who have sinned, as happens also in the world between friends. And it gives delight to those who have kept its decrees. Thus it is also in Hell. I say that the hard tortures are grief for love. The inhabitants of heaven, however, make drunk their soul with the delight of love.[21]

A good case can be made that aionios, properly translated as “ages of ages”, or eons, as opposed to “eternal” (which in Greek is aidios), restores, with respect of the entire scriptural body of divine revelation, the basic elements that constitute the parameters of cognitive systematicity: completeness, cohesiveness, consonance, consistency and compatibility, functional regularity, simplicity and efficacy. In other words, it makes for a much more consistent and coherent reading of the scriptures. For example, how can we maintain with any consistency that Christ had complete victory over death when a portion of humanity suffers eternal death?

For as long as a person exists, he acts. The rebellion of hell requires, as does all action, a degree of energy. Indeed, some people have a large reservoir of energy, and so their stubbornness can persist throughout their entire lives here. But evil is a “minus”, it is a lack, a kind of non-being, and so evil does not sustain, certainly not perpetually. It takes a great deal of energy to persist in the battle against oneself and against the real, continually diminishing in size, but the only eternal and inexhaustible source of energy is God, the One whose position evil wishes to usurp. It seems to me, therefore, that the battle is bound to run out of steam.

Moreover, human beings are generally slow to learn, particularly slow to acquire the insight that reflection upon life’s rich experience makes possible. To make an analogy with the teaching profession, in the best case scenario, when a person finally learns what it means to be a teacher and how to be a teacher, he’ll be just about ready to retire. That’s how long it takes, but of course, in his mind, he’s now just getting started. But most teachers do not even get to that point: upon retirement, it cannot be said that they’ve finally gotten a handle of what it is they are doing. But how much more is this the case with life in general? Our youth is spent, for the most part, in the land of dreams, and yet how many die in their youth? Furthermore, can it be said that most of those who live to a ripe old age have figured out, at even just a rudimentary level, what life is about and how to live it? Not in my experience. And how long it takes, when a person is finally on the right road, to overcome the delusions brought about by the inordinate love of self! These delusions can persist into the 90s, even for those devoutly religious and prayerful. We are always children. But somehow this short span is supposed to be enough time to learn what needs to be learned about life’s deepest meaning and on that basis choose freely our eternal lot? It is always the case that, for the most part or at least to some degree, we really do not know what we are doing. Christ’s words from the cross: “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do”, are spoken over each one of us, always, to our last breath, and since Christ is the eternal Person of the Son, his words are spoken over us in the “other worldly” realm of aionios. As St. Isaac of Nineveh writes: “It is not the way of the compassionate Maker to create rational beings in order to deliver them over mercilessly to unending affliction and punishment for things of which He knew even before they were fashioned, aware how they would turn out when he created them— and whom nonetheless He created.”[22]

If this is the case, then what exactly would constitute the difference between hell as depicted here and purgatory? This is a good question, but probably not as difficult as it would appear at first glance. Purgatory is a part of heaven, hell is not. Purgatory is joyful, hell is not. The pain of purgatory, according to St. Catherine of Genoa, is more joyful than the greatest joys on earth; not so hell. Souls in purgatory died in a state of grace, and so they died spiritually alive; but a soul in hell is spiritually dead. Hell involves the pain of despair, not because the divine mercy has run its course and God has turned His back forever on them, but rather because the damned have trapped themselves in their own darkness—perhaps they project their own mercilessness upon God and despair accordingly. But what God does from here on in cannot be inferred on the basis of what we would do or believe should be done

For my thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways my ways. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, my thoughts higher than your thoughts. (Is 55, 8-9. Cf. Ps 103, 9-10; See also Mt 20, 1-16)

The question of hope for universal salvation is very similar to the question of the hope of salvation for infants who die without baptism. The latter has a history that reveals a great deal about the nature of the development of doctrine. For one, “common doctrine” should not be confused with genuine statements of faith.[23] In section 34 of the International Theological Commission’s document “The Hope of Salvation for Infants Who Die Without Being Baptised”, we read: 

In the Church’s tradition, the affirmation that children who died unbaptised are deprived of the beatific vision has for a long time been “common doctrine”. This common doctrine followed upon a certain way of reconciling the received principles of revelation, but it did not possess the certitude of a statement of faith, or the same certitude as other affirmations whose rejection would entail the denial of a divinely revealed dogma or of a teaching proclaimed by a definitive act of the magisterium. The study of the history of the Church’s reflection on this subject shows that it is necessary to make distinctions. In this summary we distinguish first, statements of faith and what pertains to the faith; second, common doctrine; and third, theological opinion.[24]

Perhaps we are in a similar predicament when it comes to the question of universal salvation or restoration (apokatastasis), and perhaps the conditions will one day be in place for this question to be revisited in a future council. It took centuries before the Church was sufficiently ready to address the hope of salvation for infants who die without baptism, and the way it is currently addressed was simply beyond the Church’s reach in earlier centuries.[25] Although we may not at this time be able to solve this problem with absolute certainty, it seems to me that if it is a duty to hope and pray for the salvation of everyone–given that the Church prays in hope for “all men to be salved” and that “no one should be lost” (CCC §1821, §1058) –, then what we can be relatively certain of at this point is that the hope for universal salvation is fitting and reasonable.[26]

Notes

  1. “Man – whether man or woman – is the only being among the creatures of the visible world that God the Creator “has willed for its own sake”; that creature is thus a person”. Mulieris Dignitatem, 7. Cf. GS, 24.
  2. Sergius Bulgakov. The Sophiology of Death. Essays on Eschatology: Personal, Political, Universal. Trans. Roberto J. De La Noval. Eugene, Oregon: Cascade Books, 2021. P. 78. He continues: “Can this struggle extend for an infinite (and in this sense “eternal”) duration, a bad infinity, or, having been weakened by the struggle, must he at some point in exhaustion lay down his arms? Is his strength inexhaustible for this hopeless and endless struggle with what is self-evident, such that it can fill the ages of ages, or is even such a supposition impossible because…Satan, in point of fact, is a creature and only a creature, making his strength and his capabilities limited? What can save him in this situation is precisely that same creaturehood he rejects as a reality outstripping his creaturely freedom. He can grow exhausted in this unequal struggle–rather, he cannot not grow exhausted from it, in the end capitulating before reality and acknowledging that not he himself, but rather God, is his creator, and this means falling down and worshipping him. Then will there occur an ontological coercion on the part of reality, by force of fact.” Ibid., p. 78-79.
  3. Nicolas Berdyaev. The Destiny of Man. trans. Natalie Duddington. San Rafael, CA: Semantron Press, 2009. p 277.
  4. Ilaria Ramelli writes: “…while the notion of transmigration of souls (metensomatosis) was supported by both Pythagoras and Plato, it was not defended by Origen, who explicitly rejected it as being opposed to the “end of the world” foretold by Scripture. So against metensomatosis Origen set forth the Christian doctrine of ensomatosis (which did not imply the transmigration of a soul from one body to another). It is a doctrine of apokatastasis embedded within that of the transmigration of souls that was condemned by Justinian’s Fifth Ecumenical Council (553), not Origen’s own doctrine of apokatastasis…. the doctrine of apokatastasis was also held by Gregory Nyssen, yet no mention is made of him in either 543 or 553. Certainly, Gregory did not embrace a doctrine of apokatastasis embedded within that of the transmigration of souls–but neither did Origen.” A Larger Hope? Universal Salvation from Christian Beginnings to Julian of Norwich. Eugene, Oregon: Cascade Books, 2019. Appendix I: “The Meaning of Aionios“. P. 171.
  5. Crossing the Threshold of Hope. Toronto, Canada: Alfred A. Knopf, 1994. p. 185.
  6. St. Clement writes: “The God of the universe has disposed everything for universal salvation, in general and singularly. Thus, God did whatever did not prevent the voluntary nature of human choice, and showed this as a help to attain virtue, that in some way even those who are endowed only of weak vision the sole true Omnipotent could be revealed a good God who from eternity and forever saves through the Son and is absolutely not responsible for evil. Thus, it is a work of God’s salvific justice to lead everything to the best in so far as possible.”  Strom 7:2:12. Quoted in Ilaria L. E. Ramelli. A Larger Hope? Universal Salvation from Christian Beginnings to Julian of Norwich, Eugene, Oregon: Cascade Books, 2019, p. 26. St. Didymus the Blind writes: “The Savior in fact came to look for what was lost and save it. He looks for the soul, in order to lead it to salvation, to bring it back to its original condition. Now, just as the Savior does this by means of instruction and perfecting into what is good, likewise the disciples of the Savior, angels and human beings, do so. Comm. in Ps. 35-39 col. 267:20, quoted in Ramelli: A Larger Hope? P. 97. He also writes: “The Father has given to Christ the power and dominion over all beings, that no being that has been handed to him should perish: for this glory, too, passes through us, because it was necessary that the totality of those who will have submitted to him and have arrived in the hands of the omnipotent Logos of God be saved and remain among the goods that have no end, so that it need no longer suffer the tyranny of death, nor be liable to corruption and sins, nor have to undergo punishment for ancient evils.” On John 17: 1, quoted in Ramelli: A Larger Hope? P. 97. St. Gregory of Nyssa writes: “No being will remain outside the number of the saved”; “Every being that had its origin from God will return such as it was from the beginning, when it had not yet received evil” (In Illud, 14D).
  7. A propos du nouveau Catéchisme catholique: Convergences et divergences entre catholiques et orthodoxes. Un entretien avec Bartholomée Ier, patriarche oecuménique [About the new Catholic Catechism: Convergences and Divergences between Catholics and Orthodoxes. Meeting with Ecumenic Patriarch Bartholomew I], Service Orthodoxe de Presse – SOP, 1993, no. 178, pp. 21–26, fragment from p. 22 [own translation]. Quoted in “BUT THE PROBLEM REMAINS”. John Paul II and the universalism of the hope for salvation, by Waclaw Hryniewicz. DIALOGUE AND UNIVERSALISM No. 7–8/2007 https://afkimel.files.wordpress.com/2020/03/waclaw-hryniewicz-on-john-paul-ii-on-universalism.pdf
  8. Nicolas Berdyaev. The Destiny of Man. trans. Natalie Duddington. San Rafael, CA: Semantron Press, 2009. p 277.
  9. Edith Stein, “Freiheit und Gnade” und weitere Beitrage zu Phanomenologie und Ontologie: (1917 bis 1937) (Freiburg: Herder, 2024), 158-159. Quoted in Christoph Wrembek, S. J. Hope for Judas: God’s Boundless Mercy for Us All. N.Y.: New York City Press, p. 148.
  10. The Complete Works of George MacDonald, e-artnow, 2015. “The Creation in Christ”. [Kobo version]. Retrieved from http://www.kobo.com.
  11. “By his incarnation the Son of God has united himself in some fashion with every human being”. Gaudium et Spes, 22. See also, Evangelium Vitae, 2).
  12. See Christoph Wrembek, S. J. Hope for Judas: God’s Boundless Mercy for Us All. N.Y.: New York City Press. P. 64-80.
  13. The Liturgy of the Hours, Vol II. p. 496-498. PG 43, 439. 451, 462-463.
  14. The Liturgy of the Hours, Vol II. p. 735-736. Sermo de Domino nostro, 3-4; Opera edit. Lamy, 1, 152-158. Note that it is not necessarily the case that “multitude of men” implies “not all”. If I see a multitude of people standing outside a building, I cannot say with certainty that less than 100% of the building’s occupants are outside, while some remain inside. It may be the case that all of them are outside, as a result of a fire alarm.
  15. “By myself I swear, uttering my just decree, a word that will not return: to me every knee shall bend; by me every tongue shall swear, saying, “Only in the Lord are just deeds and power” (Is 45, 23-24).
  16. Edith Stein, “Freiheit und Gnade” und weitere Beitrage zu Phanomenologie und Ontologie: (1917 bis 1937) (Freiburg: Herder, 2024), 158-159. Quoted in Christoph Wrembek, S. J. Hope for Judas: God’s Boundless Mercy for Us All. N.Y.: New York City Press. P. 140.
  17. Ibid., p 148-149.
  18. Nicolas Berdyaev. The Destiny of Man. trans. Natalie Duddington. San Rafael, CA: Semantron Press, 2009. p 278. He also writes: “A higher and maturer consciousness cannot accept the old fashioned idea of hell; but a too light hearted, sentimentally optimistic rejection of it is equally untenable. Hell unquestionably exists, it is revealed to us in experience, it may be our own lot. But it belongs to time and is therefore temporal. Everything that is in time is temporal. The victory of eternity over time, for example the bringing-in of the temporal into eternity, is victory over hell and its powers. Hell is an aeon or an aeon of aeons, as it says in the Gospel, but not eternity. Only those are in hell who have not entered eternity but have remained in time. It is impossible, however, to remain in time forever: one can only remain in time for a time. The perspective of a bad Infinity is not an ontological reality, but a phantasm and a subjective illusion. There is something hideous and morally revolting in the idea of eternal torments as a just retribution for the crimes and sins of a short moment of life. Eternal damnation as the result of things done in a short period of time is one of the most disgusting of human nightmares. The doctrine of reincarnation, which has obvious advantages, involves, however, another nightmare, the nightmare of endless incarnations, of infinite wanderings along dark passages; it finds the solution of man’s destiny in the cosmos and not in God. But one thing is unquestionably true: after death the soul goes on living on other planes of being, just as it had lived on other planes before birth. The life in our world between birth and death is merely a small fragment of the human destiny, incomprehensible when regarded by itself, apart from the eternal destiny of man.” Ibid., p. 279.
  19. See Ilaria L. E. Ramelli. A Larger Hope? Universal Salvation from Christian Beginnings to Julian of Norwich. Eugene, Oregon: Cascade Books, 2019. Appendix I: “The Meaning of Aionios“. P. 215-221.
  20. George MacDonald writes: “When a man acknowledges the right he denied before; when he says to the wrong, ‘I abjure, I loathe you; I see now what you are; I could not see it before because I would not; God forgive me; make me clean, or let me die!’ then justice, that is God, has conquered–and not till then. …Justice then requires that sin should be put an end to; and not that only, but that it should be atoned for; and where punishment can do anything to this end, where it can help the sinner to know what he has been guilty of, where it can soften his heart to see his pride and wrong and cruelty, justice requires that punishment shall not be spared. And the more we believe in God, the surer we shall be that he will spare nothing that suffering can do to deliver his child from death. If suffering cannot serve this end, we need look for no more hell, but for the destruction of sin by the destruction of the sinner. That, however, would, it appears to me, be for God to suffer defeat, blameless indeed, but defeat. If God be defeated, he must destroy–that is, he must withdraw life. How can he go on sending forth his life into irreclaimable souls, to keep sin alive in them throughout the ages of eternity? But then, I say, no atonement would be made for the wrongs they have done; God remains defeated, for he has created that which sinned, and which would not repent and make up for its sin. But those who believe that God will thus be defeated by man souls, must surely be of those who do not believe he cares enough to do his very best for them. He is their Father; he had power to make them out of himself, separate from himself, and capable of being one with them: surely he will somehow save and keep them! Not the power of sin itself can close all the channels between creating and created.” Unspoken Sermons, “Justice”.
  21. The Ascetical Homilies of St. Isaac the Syrian: Homily 27: “In How Many Different Ways the Sight of Incorporeal Being Is Received by Human Nature”. Omaha, NE: Patristic Publishing, 2019.
  22. Ibid.
  23. “Common doctrine” as it is used in this context is not the same thing as the teaching of the ordinary and universal Magisterium. See Catechism of the Catholic Church, #892.
  24. The Hope of Salvation for Infants Who Die Without Being Baptised. International Theological Commission. 2007.  
  25. “The history of theology and of magisterial teaching show in particular a development concerning the manner of understanding the universal saving will of God. The theological tradition of the past (antiquity, the Middle Ages, the beginning of modern times), in particular the Augustinian tradition, often presents what by comparison with modern theological developments would seem to be a “restrictive” conception of the universality of God’s saving will. In theological research, the perception of the divine will to save as “quantitatively” universal is relatively recent. At the level of the magisterium, this larger perception was progressively affirmed. Without trying to date it exactly, one can observe that it appeared very clearly in the 19th century, especially in the teaching of Pius IX on the possible salvation of those who, without fault on their part, were unaware of the Catholic faith: those who “lead a virtuous and just life, can, with the aid of divine light and grace, attain eternal life; for God, who understands perfectly, scrutinizes and knows the minds, souls, thoughts and habits of all, in his very great goodness and patience, will not permit anyone who is not guilty of a voluntary fault to be punished with eternal torments”. This integration and maturation in Catholic doctrine meanwhile gave rise to a renewed reflection on the possible ways of salvation for unbaptised infants.” Ibid., 33. We also read in Dei Verbum, 8: “This tradition which comes from the Apostles develops in the Church with the help of the Holy Spirit. For there is a growth in the understanding of the realities and the words which have been handed down. This happens through the contemplation and study made by believers, who treasure these things in their hearts (see Luke, 2:19, 51) through a penetrating understanding of the spiritual realities which they experience, and through the preaching of those who have received through Episcopal succession the sure gift of truth. For as the centuries succeed one another, the Church constantly moves forward toward the fullness of divine truth until the words of God reach their complete fulfillment in her.”
  26. “Christians are people of hope. They have set their hope “on the living God, who is the saviour of all, especially of those who believe” (1 Tim 4:10). They ardently desire that all human beings, unbaptised children included, may share in God’s glory and live with Christ (cf. 1 Thess 5:9-11; Rom 8:2-5; 23-35), in keeping with the recommendation of Theophylactus: “If he [our God] wants all men to be saved, you should also want it, and imitate God”. This Christian hope is a “hope … against hope” (Rom 4:18), going far beyond any form of human hope.” The Hope of Salvation for Infants Who Die Without Being Baptised. International Theological Commission. 2007, 68. https://www.vatican.va/roman_curia/congregations/cfaith/cti_documents/rc_con_cfaith_doc_20070419_un-baptised-infants_en.html#*

 

 

 

A Reflection on Co-Inherence

(Written version of a homily for the 6th Sunday of Easter)

Deacon Douglas McManaman

I am in my Father, and you in me, and I in you. 

Perichoresis (peri: ‘around’; choreo: ‘to go’) is a Greek theological term first employed by St. Gregory of Nazianzus and St. John of Damascus. It describes the complete mutual indwelling (the “divine dance”) of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, the three Persons of the Trinity. What this means is that all three Persons of the Trinity exist entirely in one another; the Son exists entirely in the Father and entirely in the Holy Spirit, and the Father exists entirely in the Son and entirely in the Holy Spirit, and the Holy Spirit exists entirely in the Father and in the Son.  

But, you and I have been made partakers of this perichoresis, because as Jesus said: “I am in my Father, and you in me, and I in you” (Jn 14, 20). If you are in him and he is in you, and he is in the Father and in the Holy Spirit, then you are in the Father and in the Holy Spirit, and the Father is in you and the Holy Spirit is in you. In other words, the entire Trinity dwells within you. 

But we can take this further. If both you and I are in Christ and all that this implies (the Trinitarian life within us), then you and I are in one another. There is, with us, a mutual indwelling or co-inherence. This means that what happens to me affects you, and what happens to you affects me. And so, even the most secret sin that I commit will affect everyone, and conversely, the most secret work of charity will also affect everyone positively, without them necessarily knowing it. I am not some isolated individual with my own private existence; rather, I dwell within you and you in me, because we are both in him, who is in the Father (and the Father is in him). This is what holy communion means; when we receive communion, we enter into a very profound communion with one another.

Paul, however, takes this further and says that “we are individually parts of one another” (Rom 12, 5). Now, the more I get a handle on the weight of this point, the more I will hesitate to do something that will diminish me (sin), because if I am diminished, you are diminished, and if I love you, I do not want to diminish you. If I am indifferent to you, however, I don’t care that I diminish you by my sinful choices. And, the converse is also true. As I grow closer to God through charity (divine friendship), I take you along with me, because you and I are individually parts of one another. That is precisely why Paul says: “If one part suffers, all the parts suffer with it; if one part is honored, all the parts share its joy” (1 Cor 12, 26). 

Consider some of the implications of this principle. First, the good that you do in secret is actually very public, not in terms of knowledge–because what you do is done in secret–, but the unknown and unacknowledged good that you do moves the world forward and builds up the Church in ways that are beyond your ken. That few people know about what you do makes no difference in the end. The whole Christ knows. The converse is also the case; the evil that I do in secret, the lying, or little acts of unkindness, greed, selfishness, etc., are actually public, once again not in terms of knowledge, because they are done in secret, but even when no one is looking, they diminish every one, because we co-inhere in one another. And although they are done in secret, they will eventually be known throughout the entire mystical body; for Jesus himself says: “For there is nothing hidden that will not become visible, and nothing secret that will not be known and come to light” (Lk 8, 17). Further on in the same gospel, he says: “There is nothing concealed that will not be revealed, nor secret that will not be known. Therefore whatever you have said in the darkness will be heard in the light, and what you have whispered behind closed doors will be proclaimed on the housetops” (Lk 12, 2-3). 

In the second reading, Peter says: “For it is better to suffer for doing good, if suffering should be God’s will, than to suffer for doing evil. For Christ also suffered for sins once for all, the righteous for the unrighteous, in order to bring you to God” (1 Pt 3, 17-18). But when we suffer for doing good, we, like Christ, suffer for one another. The reason is that we exist in one another. In his letter to the Galatians, Paul says: “Bear one another’s burdens, and so you will fulfill the law of Christ” (Gal 6, 2). This is the law of Christ, that my suffering in the Person of Christ has the specific quality of bringing relief to another. Because we are parts of one another, we actually do bear one another’s burdens. What this means is that my suffering, which is a burden to me,  has the specific quality of bringing relief to another. Think of what it means to carry another’s burden. We lighten their load, so to speak. Recall what it is like to suffer alone, only to have someone come along and acknowledge your suffering, actually feel the sorrow you feel, to some degree at least. When this occurs, you feel your burden getting lighter and easier to carry, while the one who listens to you actually feels heavier and feels greater sorrow. Victims of injustice do not feel so alone when somebody finally listens to them, acknowledges the injustice and shares in their anger. 

Life in the community of Christ’s body is very much a zero sum game, a series of trade offs, as it were. It would not be that way if my life was closed off from yours and vice versa, if we were merely two private individuals existing side by side without any mutual indwelling or co-inherence. 

And so, a person might wonder at times: “Why is this happening to me?” “Why am I suffering like this?” Of course, I don’t have the specific answer to that question, but only a general one. Such a person might very well be relieving another of his burden, because he/she exists in Christ, and Christ suffered, the righteous for the unrighteous, and this person is sharing in Christ’s life. And others in that same mystical body have carried my burden throughout my life, so that I could enjoy momentary relief from suffering, and I don’t know who they are.

So, although your suffering might seem pointless, useless, meaningless, you will be delighted to discover in the fullness of God’s kingdom that you were actually carrying someone else’s burden and providing them with much needed  relief. That is why as chaplains we pray that God join the sufferings of this patient to the sufferings of Christ, for the sake of someone else. We share in Christ’s redeeming work when we suffer, and this suffering is precisely a matter of carrying one another’s burdens. Our suffering is never pointless. 

And there is one other very important implication here, and that is none of us are saved except through one another. Christ has made you and I participants in the salvation of the world. We can think of the joy that will be ours when we discover that our struggles, difficulties, and sufferings that were part of the life in Christ that we chose, were a real factor in the salvation of so many people, and think too of the the joy of knowing how the difficulties, burdens, struggles and sufferings of this person and that person were a factor in your salvation and my salvation.